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Halfway There: What the First 6 Months of the Year Taught Me

Time has this funny way of slipping past quietly. One minute it’s New Year’s Eve, the next you’re staring at a calendar that says July. We’re halfway through the year—and if I’m being honest, it doesn’t feel like six months have passed. It feels like maybe… two and a half? But the calendar doesn’t lie. So instead of wondering where the days went, I’m looking … Continue reading Halfway There: What the First 6 Months of the Year Taught Me

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avm, health, inspiration

What Is AVM?

Understanding the Condition That Changed My Life It was just another regular morning. Nothing seemed off—at least, nothing out of the ordinary for someone who had been battling splitting headaches for over a year. I used to joke that Ibuprofen had basically become one of my food groups. Looking back, that wasn’t funny at all. In 2013, everything changed. One moment, I was pushing through … Continue reading What Is AVM?

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family, God, inspiration

What Does Lent Mean to Your Family?

Holy Week is upon us, and for those who wish to start their own family tradition, this post might help. Every year during Maundy Thursday, our family observes Visita Iglesia—visiting seven churches while praying the Stations of the Cross. At each stop, we pray two Stations per church, completing all 14 Stations by the end of our journey. It’s a quiet, meaningful pilgrimage that helps … Continue reading What Does Lent Mean to Your Family?

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inspiration, RANDOM THOUGHTS

Things Women Should Stop Apologizing For

March is International Women’s Month, and I thought that to celebrate I’ll write about this topic. Why do so many of us still feel the need to say “sorry” for things that don’t even require an apology? How often have you started a sentence with, “Sorry, but I just wanted to say…”? Or apologized for asking a simple question at work? Maybe you’ve even said “sorry” when someone else bumped … Continue reading Things Women Should Stop Apologizing For

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inspiration, motherhood, personal

3 Simple Morning Routines for a Positive Day

I usually wake up before the alarm, no problem there. But if I’m being honest, the first thought that pops into my head isn’t always, “Let’s conquer the day!” It’s more like, “When can I lie down again?” or “How many breaks can I squeeze in later?” Sound familiar? I’ve found that starting with a little structure makes a world of difference. I follow three … Continue reading 3 Simple Morning Routines for a Positive Day

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Starting the Year with a Fresh Mindset – Tips on Setting Intentions for the Year

A fresh year brings a unique kind of energy—a sense of possibility that inspires us to pause and think about what we truly want. It’s not just about ticking off goals or hitting milestones; it’s about starting the year with a mindset that feels calm, focused, and intentional. For someone like me, a work-from-home mom with plenty on her plate, keeping that mindset can feel … Continue reading Starting the Year with a Fresh Mindset – Tips on Setting Intentions for the Year

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5 Kindness Quotes That’ll Change the Way You Treat Others

When I scroll on my social media newsfeed, I would chance upon videos where influencers/ social media personalities give random people stuff. My heart would swell initially, and tears would collect in my eyes. But now, I feel like some are just riding on the trend to chase clout. I’m so sorry for being so cynical. I’m not saying that all of them do that. … Continue reading 5 Kindness Quotes That’ll Change the Way You Treat Others

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avm, health, inspiration, recovery

Reflecting on a Decade

I never thought writing about my thoughts on the 10th anniversary of my stroke would be so difficult. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not all teary-eyed and poignant. In fact, I don’t feel anything at all.  Maybe, I can conclusively say that I have finally moved on. No more looking back and no more rereading old messages. My sight is to the future. If you … Continue reading Reflecting on a Decade

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