Not everyone will stay — and that’s something the heart learns the hard way. A few days ago, I saw a TikTok post from Rica Peralejo where she talked about friends who had cut her off — and how she’s learned to be okay with it. What she said really hit me, so I decided to write this. Twelve years ago, I suffered a stroke … Continue reading It’s OK When People Unfollow You in Real Life
I never liked the sound of the alarm. That’s why I felt so at peace when I could wake up automatically at exactly the time I wanted—yes, like clockwork! If I planned to wake up at 5 a.m., I’d open my eyes at 4:59 a.m.—seriously! I never understood how it happened. Maybe as you get older, your body just makes you do certain things, and … Continue reading Morning Musings
If you’re like most people, the fresh-start energy of the New Year has long faded, and now you’re standing in the middle of the calendar wondering, “Am I even on track?” Maybe life got busy. Maybe your plans took a different turn. Or maybe—like me—you’re feeling a little anxious about where things are headed. Career-wise, health-wise… it’s a lot to carry. Truth is, I’ve been … Continue reading A Simple Guide To Setting (and Hitting) Personal Goals Mid-Year
Time has this funny way of slipping past quietly. One minute it’s New Year’s Eve, the next you’re staring at a calendar that says July. We’re halfway through the year—and if I’m being honest, it doesn’t feel like six months have passed. It feels like maybe… two and a half? But the calendar doesn’t lie. So instead of wondering where the days went, I’m looking … Continue reading Halfway There: What the First 6 Months of the Year Taught Me
Sometimes I wonder why I’m still here. Especially in those moments of quiet when everyone else is asleep, or I’m in the middle of writing an email, or doing chores at home, and it hits me: Why did God give me another life? I survived something I wasn’t supposed to. I got another chance. I’m grateful, truly. But there are days when I question it. … Continue reading Maybe It’s an Existential Crisis (Who Knows?)
II’m a middle child. Growing up, most of the focus naturally went to the eldest, who carried the pressure of setting an example, and the youngest, who needed the most care. And honestly, that’s okay. It rattled my confidence a little, sure — but I never let it define my worth. I quietly learned how to carve out my own space, even without being front … Continue reading You’re Not So Important, and That’s Okay
II’ll admit it—I can be very envious of people. Just scrolling through social media is enough to make my head spin and my heart ache with desire. But I know myself well enough to understand that dwelling in those spaces won’t do me any good. So, what did I do? I cut back on my time on those platforms and instead started listening to As … Continue reading How Comparison Steals Joy (And How to Break Free)
I’m excited to share that I’m adding a brand new category to my blog—Essays! This will be a space where I can share my thoughts and spill out the emotions and ideas swirling around in my head. Expect short, personal essays that capture the little moments, reflections, and insights that make up everyday life. This new outlet is all about honesty and expression, offering a … Continue reading Want To Hear My Thoughts?
I just turned 45, and I never realized I would feel this way Continue reading How It Feels To Be 45
As we navigate through our 40s, birthdays often feel overshadowed. Loved ones become preoccupied, distances grow, or sometimes, it feels as though people simply forget. Perhaps it’s my increasing detachment from the whirlwind of daily life that has made me feel somewhat invisible. In an era where social media is ever-present, it’s easy to mistake a glance at a picture for a genuine connection. The … Continue reading 2023 Is Not Just Another Year
From My Corner of the Couch 