The year 2024 proved to be one of the most challenging years of my life. Of course, nothing can beat 2013, which was the year I suffered from a stroke. But the year that’s about to conclude has been so ruthless that I’ve cried too much and been so anxious. I have experienced panic attacks several times, and there were moments when I would just break down on my husband’s shoulder. Despite all that, the year taught me valuable lessons—some learned the hard way—that I want to share as we close this chapter.

6. If It Seems Too Good To Be True, It Probably Is

I lost a lot of money because of an online scam. There, I said it. I’ve been foolish enough to believe I could earn a substantial amount of money while sitting comfortably at home. Folks, beware. These scams often target vulnerable people, especially those desperate for cash.

I’ve since moved on and accepted that I won’t get my money back. It’s painful, but dwelling on it won’t help. Instead, I’ve resolved to work harder to recover what I lost, unlike those horrible people who prey on others. Honestly, I can’t imagine how they live with themselves—feeding their families using money gained through dishonesty.

This incident left me feeling weak and unsure because I no longer have backup funds. But if there’s a silver lining, it’s this: I’m now more cautious and mindful of where I place my trust.

5. Learning to Value Meaningful Conversations

I recently discovered a pet peeve of mine. I don’t like talking about people, and I hate it when groups of people make fun of someone who’s not present at an event. I mean, it’s okay to briefly talk about someone, but spending an hour or more dissecting their life feels like overkill—and honestly, kind of exhausting. Instead, I’ve come to appreciate discussions about ideas, concepts, and meaningful events that help us grow. It’s a mindset I aim to keep moving forward.

4. Living Simply, Living Fully

Since starting to work online, I’ve been on social media almost constantly. While it has its perks, it’s also a double-edged sword. Seeing lavish posts of people flaunting their lifestyles can be intoxicating—to the point where I found myself consumed by envy and longing to be rich. But that mindset only added stress to my life.

Eventually, I woke up and realized I don’t need those grand things to be happy. Our current life is good—we eat more than three times a day, enjoy delicious meals at restaurants, and occasionally indulge in nice experiences. Isn’t that enough?

One day, we’ll improve our home, but for now, I’ve decided not to stress about it. I even left a Facebook group called Home Buddies because instead of inspiring me, it only made me feel inadequate. Honestly, the decision to leave felt liberating—and kind of hilarious when I think about it, lol.

3. The Value of Real Friends

As you grow older, your circle of friends gets smaller. Gone are the days of frequent luncheons and dinners; now, it’s mostly Netflix nights and leftovers at home. And honestly? That’s fine. As a self-proclaimed introvert, I enjoy those quiet moments. But every now and then, I find myself asking: “What happened? Where are my friends? Do they still think of me?”

My high school besties Pia (in Hawaii) and Voogie (in Arizona)

My work friends Elena and Jan Jassem

This year, I’ve come to treasure my high school and work friends even more. On the rare occasions when we meet for a hearty meal or coffee, I feel truly valued. Those moments may be fleeting, but they’re also priceless. And they’ve reminded me that quality always trumps quantity when it comes to friendships.

2. Gratitude and Happiness in Even the Smallest Things

In the past, it took something big to make me happy. But lately, I’ve found joy in the smallest, most mundane things—a good cup of coffee, a kind word, or a moment of peace.

I’ve also been teaching my kids the importance of gratitude. Saying thank you shouldn’t just be an afterthought; it should come naturally and immediately when someone shows kindness. So, to everyone who reached out to give me or my family something this year, please know that I’m genuinely grateful. Your thoughtfulness means more than you know.

1. God Listens to Prayers

Yes, folks, God listens. I’m living proof of that. There were countless times this year when I prayed with all my heart, and while I didn’t always get what I wanted, I’ve learned to trust that God knows what’s best for me. Sometimes, not getting what you want is a blessing in disguise—it keeps life challenging and meaningful.

Final Thoughts

Life may have been brutal in 2024, but I’m holding on to hope that 2025 will be better. After all, we all deserve a fresh start, don’t we? Let’s welcome the new year with open hearts and hopeful spirits. Here’s to brighter days ahead!